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onthecontrarykelly

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Category: mindfulness

On slowing down time.

So I’ve been doing it all wrong. For the past few years I have embarked on a slow, routine lifestyle … More

novel experiences, perception, perception of time, perspective, slowing down time

On Optimism as Survival.

I have a feeling my optimism about life can be aggravating to others. I imagine it has the ability to … More

death, mental-health, mindset, optimism, perspective, philosophy, positive thinking, positivity, understanding

Alcohol Escape Adventure

We all drink with good intentions: relief, connection, adventure, joy, escape. We do it because the hundrum of stability a … More

alcohol, drinking less, experience, low alcohol, perspective, self improvement, sober, sober curious, social tonics

Every 7 years…

One thing I love about getting older is the capacity of your tastes to change, evolve and circle back. 20 … More

aging, authenticity, confidence, consideration, experience, human condition, identity, life, meaning, people, perspective, philosophy, self improvement, understanding

Is forgiveness necessary?

“Forgive and forget.” “You need to forgive them so you can move forward.” We’ve all heard these tropes dressed as … More

consideration, forgive, forgiveandforget, forgiveness, perspective, philosophy

Comparison is a thief.

It’s quite amazing to me how much time we spend comparing ourselves to others. Seeing as there is no optimal … More

comparison, experience, humanity, perspective, philosophy, self improvement, stoicism, understanding

Identity Epiphany

I have been trying to define myself all my life. There is one way that I want people to see … More

experience, humans, identity, meaning, people, perspective, positive thinking, remembered, self improvement, understanding, vocabulary

What not to expect.

As I enter this phase of life where I will become a mom/parent, there are so many things that people … More

consideration, dad, first time dad, first time mom, first time parents, identity, mom, parenting, perspective

I saw the sign….

Symbols have always been incredibly important to me. I think it’s my main draw to most jewelry and many things … More

experience, friends, friendship, humanity, humans, identity, meaning, people, perspective, signs, symbolism, symbols, understanding, vocabulary

Being Mindful.

So I’ve been meditating every morning for a week and I have to say that it has had a very … More

balance, mindfulness, quiet, self-help, self-improvment
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