Do we ever really know who someone else is? When I think about who I am and all the intricate…
On the misuse of the phrase, “Everyone makes mistakes.”
I’ve always had a problem with this phrase because the word “mistake” has a negative connotation. Webster’s dictionary defines mistake…
On the compulsive belief that you’ve done something wrong.
I often come away from a social interaction and think “I feel like they are mad/irritated/annoyed by me” and then…
On one of my greatest strengths.
In my quest to become a counselor, something I had noticed is I’m not easily rattled. I’ve been saying this…
On a forced, performative life vs an organic life.
We should really consider the magic that is recognizing people’s vibes and energy without the performance. What does that entail?…
On wielding your coping mechanisms for good.
I’ve tried to live a peaceful existence. I utilize my strengths to do so, yet at times, I have chosen…
On romanticizing your life.
Let’s goooooooo!!! When you’re questioning your life and find you don’t know what is next, why not start from within?…
On loneliness and the role of connection.
If someone tells me something is bad for you and I enjoy it, I am initially defensive. People say we…
On not needing to be uncomfortable in change, and apparently, also on social anxiety.
Why must we only make changes when we are uncomfortable? Why is it a prerequisite? There is nothing good about…
On Alcohol’s part in my play.
I feel like alcohol stunted my growth as a person. I could have been growing-finding other hobbies to pursue-using that…
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