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Tag: self improvement

On Alcohol’s part in my play.

I feel like alcohol stunted my growth as a person. I could have been growing-finding other hobbies to pursue-using that … More

alcohol reduction, perspective, self improvement, sober curious

On becoming 40.

I have never declared 40 is old. Or most other ages. All the while, many people profess they are “old” … More

ageism, experience, identity, perspective, self improvement, turning 40

Alcohol Escape Adventure

We all drink with good intentions: relief, connection, adventure, joy, escape. We do it because the hundrum of stability a … More

alcohol, drinking less, experience, low alcohol, perspective, self improvement, sober, sober curious, social tonics

On Perfectionism.

Perfectionism – wanting, no NEEDING something to be a particular way, down to the last detail with zero mistakes or … More

experience, humanity, identity, perfect, perfectionism, perspective, self improvement

Every 7 years…

One thing I love about getting older is the capacity of your tastes to change, evolve and circle back. 20 … More

aging, authenticity, confidence, consideration, experience, human condition, identity, life, meaning, people, perspective, philosophy, self improvement, understanding

Don’t suffer. Live life!

Choosing to suffer on purpose in order to gain credit had become America’s favorite hobby but I’m seeing a new … More

balance, burnout, identity, life, over-working, perspective, philosophy, self improvement, work

Comparison is a thief.

It’s quite amazing to me how much time we spend comparing ourselves to others. Seeing as there is no optimal … More

comparison, experience, humanity, perspective, philosophy, self improvement, stoicism, understanding

Life as a Whirlwind.

So I just read my last blog. It was written THREE YEARS ago which, I’m quite certain, was actually yesterday. … More

experience, humanity, legacy, perspective, philosophy, reflect, self improvement, think, understanding

Identity Epiphany

I have been trying to define myself all my life. There is one way that I want people to see … More

experience, humans, identity, meaning, people, perspective, positive thinking, remembered, self improvement, understanding, vocabulary

Identity

Identity. It encompasses our entire being. We question it daily and we question what others perceive it to be. Who … More

be yourself, confidence, consideration, experience, human condition, humans, identity, multifaceted, people, personality, perspective, philosophy, self improvement, understanding

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